(-Cage Of Cares-)
Parents, they are the inseparable part of our life. They are the one to make us best what we can be. Indeed they are the Godfathers of our achievement. They are the Guru’s, they are the source of Resource needed :P. .
Of course and that is hereditary phenomena of nature i say. We love them for the same. We love them bcoz they don’t let any of our most -of-the wishes remain incomplete. We love them bcoz they parent us, care us, and all that you can think. .
But. . but yes there is this one phase where few of the same things we start feeling needless. We feel “NO, Please Don’t Be Like That. .”. We start feeling those cares unwanted. Irrelevant at times. We just start feeling caged as we start growing.
But yes we are growing. We are by now grown up. We have friends around who know us by name. And there are those other mutual friends who know us bcoz of our name. We are building a status we know. We are having a name we know. We are talking to people, we are communicating, we are socializing. And we know it all well that, I M GROWN UP.
So, now we know how to be in society. What are the people around us. How they are. And what type of people could be, ranging from the scale of VERY GOOD to Worst. So we are learning day by day about own capabilities through this socialization. And we want to know more. More about people and so about own too.
But no. This is not then what parents want. They don’t want you to get exposed. They don’t want u to go around with so many people from different colonies. They don’t want you to talk to people who they think as “Kay Mahit Kasa Asel?”.
Here comes the phase of Our and Parents clashing. Now we are getting to know the world. So many things that happen in world. We are getting idea of interest of our self. And it so happens that, what we want to do is exactly what parents don’t want us to do. They think we might get drifted away in the company of people. We might deffer from our family hood. They think we might get wrong. We may get foul. We may get ruined. We may get in bad habits. They just start finding our actions wrong.
Yes at a certain point they come out to be really true and saver. But at some point they tend to be over caring. Over reacting at some situations. We find them restricting. We find them narrow at thoughts. Narrow at traditions. And more, we start feeling their actions doubtful over us. This gets to the extent that we indulge into family arguments, try telling them what we want. And that's were comes few change in their thinking.
They call us irresponsible. Immature. Arrogant. Arguing person to elders. They find us some one who is not a good “baby” of them any more. We become useless. Out of hand. They think us SPOILED. .
My dear friends. . Is that really really true? Is that what we want? Is that how we want to behave? Is that true we are spoiled, useless ? ? Probably and really i think NO!!!
This is really not what we are. What we want. What we have got changed into. And that's really not how we want to be.
We want to learn. We want to get exposed. We want to TRY. We want to Fall. We want to Get Up and we want to remember all what we did as “EXPERIENCE”..
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Dear Parents,
We really really love you. We really respect you and we do know you care. Please don’t find us ruined. Please don’t call us irresponsible. Please don’t restrict us. Give us a ground to play. Leave us to fall and let us to learn to get up and start again. Yes but do hold our hand and don’t let us fall in dark. Because from this is how you have gained the knowledge, and this is how you have your Experiences. Let us also gather some of them, so that tomorrow we could also share. Dear Parents, we too love you. .